Why am I so Horny

It is absolutely normal for the people who are in the age group of twenty whether male or female to have relatively strong sex drive. However, if you are a virgin then there are additional factors which intensify your sexual frustration and desire. Sometimes, you feel horny because of hormones and also because of physical changes. When you are in a new relationship also makes you sexually excited. 

However, there are instances, where increased sex drive indicates physiological and physical problem. In this case, people have higher sex drive and find it difficult to control their desire. This happens in the following conditions:

Sexual Addiction: People having hypersexual disorder have increased sex drive. They experience feeling horny often and engage in sexual activities and urges more often. This is the sign of sexual addiction. You engage yourself in sexual fantasies in response to anxiety, irritability, and depression and fail to control your urges. This is nothing but is the symptom of hyper sexual disorder.

Hormones: Hormones play a vital role in boosting your sex drive. The changes in hormones lead to increase in your sex drive and make you feel horny most of the time. This is the case till you attain the age of fifty. Some ladies feel horny just before the period because of the changes of testosterone and estrogen levels in your body. 

Bipolar Disorder: This is a mental illness where you see extreme changes in your mood. Sometimes you might feel very depressed and sometimes with the highs of mania. This illness sometimes is the cause of feeling horny very often.

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder: Ladies with this disorder always are in a state of arousal and do not feel relief even after having sex. This disorder is curable through hormonal therapy, behavior therapy and antidepressants and gels. 

Dementia: Studies shows that people with this disorder feels more horny and becomes overactive in sex. You will notice inappropriate sexual behaviors like exposing themselves, masturbating. Both men and women are affected because of Dementia.

Pregnancy: It is not a sign to worry if you feel horny during pregnancy because it is due to change in hormones. You also see that the size of breast is enlarged and also the size of vulva has changed. This is mainly due to excessive blood flow to these areas which makes you feel more excited and makes you want more. These changes are noticed in the first trimester and slowly become normal with the progress in pregnancy.

Klüver-Bucy Syndrome: This is a rare disease cause due to brain damage where you notice inappropriate sexual behavior and also because of neurobehavioral condition. Other symptoms in this syndrome include short term memory loss, dullness in emotion and difficulty in recognizing people’s faces.

Certain food intakes: Intake of certain food causes increase in your sex drive. Foods like bananas, oranges, avocado, Celery, blackberries, watermelon, almonds, oatmeal, and broccoli in your diet increases sex drive.

Menstrual Cycle: During this period, there is more production of testosterone leading to increased libido which makes you feel horny during menopause. 

Rabies: People suffering from rabies reports feeling horny. It is because of the virus that inflames the brain which makes the person to exhibit sexually inappropriate behavior. It is recommended to immediately get the medical treatment.

New love in your life: When you are in new relationship, you start feeling more excited. This beautiful moment you wish to be with the person you love and it is but natural that your sexual energy is driving and makes you feel hornier. This is actually a good drug so it is not a sign to worry.

Drugs and Alcohol: There are certain drugs which make you feel horny all the time because of high libido and same is the case with the alcohol. You can take the help of the therapist or take advice of the doctor.

Hyperadrenalism: This syndrome is because of increase amount of adrenal hormone. The increased body hair, sudden growth in facial hair or loss of hair on the scalp in case of woman is mainly due to hyperadrenalism. And this disorder is one of the causes of feeling horny.

Pancreatic Endocrine Tumor: Some females have high libido because of this disease. A tumor in the pancreas makes woman more sexually active.

Other Causes: There are many other reasons and situations which make you feel horny all the time. If a child experienced sexual molestation starts masturbating at very early stage. Intake of certain diet also leads to increase in sex drive, certain chemicals and drugs make you sexually active. In some cases, due to anxiety you experience high sex drive because you think it is a way to comfort yourself.

Steps to be taken to avoid feeling horny often: Feeling horny is not that it is something wrong. To be in the feeling which makes you feel amazing is always good if it is not disturbing your daily activity. But if the drive is causing disturbance, it is recommended to consult your doctor. He is the right person to diagnose your underlying cause of high sex drive. However, there are some ways to manage strong libido:

Workout: One of the ways to control sexual thoughts is to engage you in burning energy through exercises like dancing, running and other activities.

Change your focus: You may divert your attention on the activities of your interest. You can calm down your sex drive with medication, yoga and breathing exercise.

Medication: To reduce the level of testosterone, start taking estrogen to control your sex drive. You can take anti-androgens or any testosterone blockers with the advice of your doctor.

Have regular sex: Having sex will help you feel less horny. It will allow you to stress out the energy.

Masturbate: There is nothing wrong in masturbating when you are sexually excited. You don’t have to always have a partner.

And still if the problem persists after taking all the precautions, then you have to consider under going for the process of removing the ovary with the consultation of the doctor.